tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8431724340193402744.post2872948284661180841..comments2023-05-30T14:04:19.606+05:30Comments on Self - Written Poetry: Expectation and RelationshipsSaumya Goilahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08176596156649518664noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8431724340193402744.post-20351208256744397482011-07-22T19:36:39.625+05:302011-07-22T19:36:39.625+05:30Nice!!!Nice!!!Umesh Pandithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09867698857038621999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8431724340193402744.post-37925792816096691152011-07-22T19:06:41.160+05:302011-07-22T19:06:41.160+05:30Nice!!!Nice!!!Umesh Pandithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09867698857038621999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8431724340193402744.post-88180593213958461052011-03-26T00:20:12.603+05:302011-03-26T00:20:12.603+05:30i loved wad u wrote and its absolutely true.. dis ...i loved wad u wrote and its absolutely true.. dis i am saying from personal experience..!!!<br />and yes when u do somethin for someone without expecting anything in return... dey feel happy and feel like doin somethin special for.. nw u could say dat i'm expecting da other person to do somethin... bt thats nt the case.. its a reality i'm living and hence i can say it..Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00067876719861920844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8431724340193402744.post-74502641954718262502010-09-26T23:40:09.303+05:302010-09-26T23:40:09.303+05:30Another point, I can say that Zero expectation sta...Another point, I can say that Zero expectation state is a State full of surprises. One always likes surprises than routine or planned events! right? :)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18233102902044511606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8431724340193402744.post-77835451519614458732010-09-26T23:38:01.845+05:302010-09-26T23:38:01.845+05:30Amazing article Saumya!!! .. and especially Expect...Amazing article Saumya!!! .. and especially Expectation = Expect a Shun!.. Another important thing to remember is one can easily mixed up between ones own desires and ones own expectations. We all have desires -> but expecting others to fulfill them is where we go wrong..Living life! means living each moment of our lives with complete freedom towards fulfilling ourselves, our each desire... not through expectations from others, but through belief in our own self, own effort and existence!.. thats living life!..thats living without expectations...and thats living each moment towards our own inner fulfillment! <br />I also liked v much the piece where you talk about how people should do things with No expectations of anything in return!!!... A lot of times we do a good thing like help a friend or help someone in need but put expectation of immense gratitude or appreciation from others, which when we do not receive ruins the happiness or joy of our actions!... hence I realized after reading your article that this is a very important part of the equation!!! :) ..again, a very useful insight to very basic aspect of our lives!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18233102902044511606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8431724340193402744.post-70678555293652972522010-09-22T11:47:36.339+05:302010-09-22T11:47:36.339+05:30The baseline is that I don't worry about disap...The baseline is that I don't worry about disappointment and dissatisfaction. If you don't have an expectation, how can you possibly know what fulfillment is? Words like fulfillment and satisfaction are comparative phrases. And these find their place in your vocabulary only if you have an expectation in place. Thats the thin line between existing and living.Ajay Guptahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17315153511903272944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8431724340193402744.post-84058907691927741652010-09-22T03:41:32.482+05:302010-09-22T03:41:32.482+05:30@ The Dreamer: well I say, that when you choose yo...@ The Dreamer: well I say, that when you choose your friends wisely you dont have to expect anything at all because the wise decision will get all satisfaction and fulfillment along with it if you are in a zero expectations state. In fact if you are not in zero expectation state, there will be compromises and dis-satisfactions to at least some extent at some point....Saumya Goilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08176596156649518664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8431724340193402744.post-70725629107475540762010-09-22T02:05:43.051+05:302010-09-22T02:05:43.051+05:30When you reach that state of zero expectations, I ...When you reach that state of zero expectations, I hope you still have a smile on your face. A life without expectations isn't zen. A life where your expectations are fulfilled is the one I call perfect. Choose your friends wisely.. expectations are a part of the deal.Ajay Guptahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17315153511903272944noreply@blogger.com